By Ugochukwu Ejinkeonye
It is not surprising that the recent
directive by the Minister of Education, Mr. Adamu Adamu, to the Nigerian Educational Research and
Development Council (NERDC) to expunge Sex Education from the basic
education curriculum in Nigeria has been greeted with serious opposition from
groups and persons who 0bviously derive some of benefits from the callous
sexualisation of the tender minds of Nigerian pupils.
I am sure that many parents and concerned
persons who have heard about the minister’s directive are highly relieved and
happy and hoping that no amount of pressure from these misguided interest
groups will compel the government to have a change of mind. Indeed, this is a
major move towards sanitizing our primary and secondary education curriculum and
salvaging the moral health of the younger generation which has been badly
corrupted and diseased by very pernicious teachings that can only mould them into
badly flawed characters.
When some years ago I was shown the
topics covered in “Sexuality Education” or “Sex
Education” which was being taught as a compulsory subject in both
junior and secondary schools in Nigeria, it was shocking to see that mere
kids, some as young as ten or even nine, were put in the hands of teachers, who
deploy every energy, talent and creativity to saturate their tender minds with
every detail about sexual immorality and the use of contraceptives.
When I first raised alarm on this issue
in my now rested newspaper column, a concerned parent wrote me to say that the
‘Teacher’s Guide’ given to the Integrated Science teachers
(who handled this subject) mandated them “to teach the children that
religious teachings on issues like pre-marital sex, contraception,
homosexuality, abortion and gender relations are mere opinions and
myths! They are also to teach the students how to masturbate and use
chemical contraceptives (designed for women in their 30s). The ‘Teachers
Guide’ equally lays a big emphasis on values clarification; this
empowers teenage children to decide which moral values to choose since the ones
parents teach them at home are mere options.”
It was difficult to imagine that any normal
person could have the mind to design such a subject even for the children of
his worst enemy! In my view, this clearly qualifies as child abuse, which,
sadly, was unabashedly endorsed by the authorities. But many
Nigerian parents are highly elated today at the intervention of the Education
Minister which has put an abrupt end to the whole sickening madness!
How can parents and concerned citizens smother
the tormenting fears that some of the Sex Education teachers might aim to
deftly deploy this subject to titillate their tender victims instead of giving
them healthy education? One can imagine how easy it would be for a
teacher who has been targeting a female student to use his creative elaboration
of this subject, to get the girl so overwhelmed she would become easy
meat.
I am told that there are two main
reasons for the introduction of this subject in our schools. One is to empower
school children with adequate knowledge about their bodies and how to “safely”
indulge in pre-marital sex without falling victims to teenage pregnancy and
sexually transmitted diseases, especially HIV/AIDS.
The second reason is to demystify sexual
immorality, give it a positive image as something to be cherished and enjoyed
without any fear, as long as it is done “safely” and consensually. The belief
is that with the age-long “superstition” built around sexual immorality which
‘stigmatizes’ it as an evil and sinful activity, some kids tend to go into it
with fear and dread, and so develop psychological problems arising from the
guilt they feel afterwards.
But these reasons are simply hollow and
unconvincing. They are built on the assumption that in the present age, it is
extremely difficult, if not impossible, for unmarried people to abstain from
sex. And so, instead of teaching the kids to place appropriate value to
their bodies and maintain their self-esteem by abstaining from sexual
immorality as our own parents had taught us, they are emboldened to behave like
dogs. But the difference between human beings and animals ought to be the
ability to reason and determine the consequences of actions, and then exercise
discretion and self-control. Why not tell a kid the consequences of an action
and use that to dissuade him from indulging in it? Has that not worked for
ages?
Looking at the earnestness with which
this policy is being pursued despite oppositions from informed parents and
other concerned parties, one is forced to suspect that there may also be some
commercial angle to it. Are we sure that substantial profit is not
accruing to the initiators of this programme and their
collaborators in government from the sales of the several books being written
and printed on the vile subject? Support may equally be coming from
manufacturers of contraceptives and the well-oiled NGOs they are promoting who
certainly see in Sex Education a lucrative venture to promote and sustain.
Now, how far has this subject helped in
reducing teenage pregnancies and STDs in the Western nations where it has been
taught, assimilated and practiced for many years now? It is a fact that these
teachings have, for instance, been introduced in both the United
States and Britain for many years now, but as I write now, I
have before me, a BBC report saying that Britain has the
highest record of teenage pregnancy in the whole of Western Europe. Also,
another report has it that the United States has the highest number
of teenage pregnancies in the entire Western world. Again, in the United
States, it is reported that new infections of HIV are still on the increase.
That naturally leads us to the
contentious issue of “safe sex.” So, what is all this fetish about “safe
sex” and how “safe” can sex actually be? The truth is that a lot of
studies and findings have effectively punctured the dubious confidence built
over the years on condom-use. We know that with an effective magnifying
lens, it is easy to see that several objects, especially rubber and plastics,
have tiny holes through which very minute micro organisms could pass.
I read somewhere recently that the “HIV virus
is only 0.1 micron in size while the naturally occurring holes in a latex
condom is of the order 5 to 50 microns in diameter.” So where then is the
“protection” we have heard so much about if the deadly virus can indeed pass
through the wall of a condom? Is this not why we have often heard reports
of people contracting HIV even though they had practiced the so-called
“protected sex”? This is the time to rethink all this stuff behind which some
fellows have hidden to pollute the minds of kids with ruinous teachings.
Fortunately, we have one precaution that does not fail. And that is the good
old abstinence, which has been proven and tested to be the only reliable
protection against deadly STDs and teenage pregnancies? We must hasten to
realize that what is at stake here is human life, and should not be toyed with,
for whatever reasons. It is becoming increasingly difficult to understand this
desperation to create an immoral and ungodly society by misleading the youths?
Now, if not for reasons that are less than noble and wholesome, why
would Nigeria be eager to import a policy that is failing
even in more advanced nations?
Okay, here is another point to ponder: HIV is 500 times smaller than
spermatozoa, yet research has established that spermatozoa are able to
sometimes pass through the wall of a latex condom to cause
conception. Now, if this is the case, are we not by this subject leading our
youths through the minefield? The example cited earlier of the worrisome rise
in fresh infections of HIV in a place like the US where years
of successful Sex Education has achieved overwhelming attitudinal change in
favour of condom-use should serve to buttress this point.
Now, with this policy in place and
flourishing, where is this nation really heading to? What is the use living, if
one must live like a dog?
I would, therefore, want to advise the school boy or girl reading this piece to
please pause awhile and ask himself or herself what the initiators of this
policy hope to achieve in his of her life by giving him or her these teachings?
Such a youth should wonder how they still expect him to concentrate on his
studies after they have saturated his mind with filthy teachings that only fill
his mind with distractive lusts.
Now, if his instructors (who are mostly
parents) are encouraging him to freely indulge in sexual immorality at this
early stage of his life, what type of future leader do they expect him to
become? After “empowering” him to go on the rampage, wouldn’t they
have succeeded in giving him a disease deadlier than even the AIDS they are
presuming to save him from – which is the destruction of his moral
fibre?
What is the guarantee that he would be
able to build a healthy family afterwards by shunning the promiscuity that this
subject is surely preparing him for, and which, as we all know, results in the
proliferation of broken homes which has become the nightmare of today’s world?
It is instructive that The
Guardian on Sunday, July 18, 1999, carried a report that a cross
section of American college (mostly female) students were regretting the
limitless freedom their parents had allowed them and had resolved to devote
themselves to pursue a “no-sex” campaign. But in Nigeria of today,
sexual immorality has been deregulated and democratized.
But concerned Nigerian parents cannot
afford to be intimidated and just watch helplessly as some fellows whose
intentions are less than noble go all out to ruin their kids for them. And so,
they should be able to ask: To what extent should the government interfere in
people’s lives and families?
Where does the government derive the
authority to invade somebody’s home with ungodly teachings and inflict them on
the person’s kids, just because he gave his kid to the government to educate in
its schools? Shouldn’t an open and clear expression of disaffection towards
this gross violation by stakeholders have since led to its reappraisal and
possible removal from the school curriculum?
Again, and very importantly too; most
people have strongly accepted and hold very dear to their hearts the teachings
they have received from the religious faith of their choice (which we as
civilized people must respect) that sexual immorality which is a grievous sin
against God attracts eternal damnation; and they are eager to ensure that both
themselves and their kids escape this terrible doom; how then can we
accommodate and respect this their belief (which is sacred to them) in this unwholesome
insistence on teaching and encouraging their children to freely indulge in
fornication? Should we just dismiss and callously tear down a belief they
hold so sacred and dear, and with which they have determined to successfully
raise their children to become morally healthy kids? As if it does not
matter?
It is heartwarming that, at last, the
Minister of Education has agreed with those of us who have continued to insist
that this policy is ruinous and has ordered its removal from the school
curriculum since it denies a large a number of people the option of choice.
Many parents are not even aware that such a teaching is being generously forced
down the throats of their precious children, thereby destroying all they have
taught them at home.
Certainly, there are centres where some
NGOs have established to propagate these pro-pre-marital sex teachings.
Interested parents can take their children to those centres, while the
objecting parents are spared the trauma of watching their kids being subjected
to a menu they firmly believe is terribly unhealthy and ruinous. Their right to
dissent must be respected.
*Ugochukwu
Ejinkeonye is a Nigerian journalist and writer. His book, Nigeria: Why
Looting May Not Stop, is available on Amazon.com (scruples2006@yahoo.com)
*First published in The NATION (of Nov 30, 2022); VANGUARD and SUN (of Dec. 1, 2022)
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