By Adekunle Adekoya
Trending heavily in the media- new, traditional and social- is the death of 12-year-old Sylvester Oromoni, a student of Dowen College in Lekki, Lagos, last week, ostensibly from injuries sustained from beatings by a group of bullies, also students of the same school. Deaths are emotional occurrences for us humans, even when it is the death of an aged parent, talk less that of a teenager in whom much was being invested, with prospects of a bright life ahead.
In this instance, it is even more emotional, deeply troubling if you like, as it was revealed that the dead student had reported instances of bullying in the past, which elicited little or no reaction. The situation is worsened by the revelations of other parents, who suddenly started disclosing instances of bullying by their children, all after Oromoni’s death. Too little, too late.
It was Oromoni’s
disclosure of a particular bullying group that has led people to insinuate,
indeed assert, that cult group(s) exist in the school. From what has been going
on nationwide, it is difficult to dismiss or downplay the
assertion. Less than two weeks earlier in Abeokuta, the Ogun State capital, a
Divisional Police Officer, DPO, Ignatius Alimeke, and three students were
injured following clashes involving rival cult groups operating in two public
secondary schools in Ogun State.
The bloody
incident was a clash between students of Egba High School, Asero and Asero
Secondary School, during which cult groups in the two schools were settling a
supremacy grudge.
Seeing a threat
to public peace and order, the unfortunate DPO of Adatan Police Station,
Abeokuta, Ignatius Alimeke, mobilised his men to quell the raging mayhem.
Leading from the front, he was caught in a hail of missiles, one or more of
which hit his forehead, leaving a deep cut. The photo of the bloodied DPO
is still trending.
Earlier in
June, in Uyo, the Akwa Ibom State capital, some students of Uyo High School
were said to have dropped a letter and some fetish objects in front of the
principal’s office. In the letter, the principal was given 24 hours to secure
the release of some of their members arrested for cultism or face extermination
of his family. These are just two examples from two states, but the reality is
that cult groups are now part and parcel of informal learning in our schools.
“Problems are
like plants; they have roots,” is a quote attributed to the late sage,
Chief Obafemi Awolowo. Many people trace the origin of cults in schools to the
formation of campus cults in our universities, particularly the University of
Ibadan, and blame the present infestation on that development.
That is not
just easy, it is wrong and lazy. The truth is that many ethnic groups profess
various cults. These cults were, and still are, in many cases, instruments and
organs of traditional civil administration. They operated and still operate very
discreetly, but their effects are felt.
Many people
usually did not know their dad or grandpa belonged to such organisations until
they passed on, and hitherto unknown people in special regalia surfaced at the
burial. Besides, when we were made to embrace Western education, we embraced
other things, most of which are not suitable to our make-up and ways of life,
but that is another matter entirely.
With
university education came campus fraternities and sororities, commonly called
Greek Letter Organisations, GLOS. So, in many universities in North America, it
is common to find fraternities like Sigma Delta Phi, Phi Beta Kappa, and so on,
dedicated to excellence and honours in academic achievement.
So, what went
wrong with our experience? That is what we owe ourselves as a collective to
find out, with a view to making adjustments that will stem the cycle of
needless violence and senseless waste of lives.
But two things
are clear: failure of parenting and failure of regulation in our schools
system. There are too many fathers, especially those of my generation and
younger, whose only idea of fatherhood is just to provide the money. Once
school fees are paid, and there is food in the house, that’s all.
Many do not even
know they’re fathering monsters since they’re never at home, except
during their annual leaves. Ditto for some mothers. The economic and transport
situation has also made it very difficult for those who could have been responsible
parents.
Leaving home at
4am, and returning 10pm is the lot of most urban parents. While away, the
children are left to their own devices. Worse, the “me and my husband” syndrome
has denied many struggling families the support they could have gotten from
parents-in-law, who could have filled in for them while away. That’s how some
of us grew up. Still, time must be made out to fulfil obligations. There are
things nobody can do for us, like going to the toilet.
The failure of
regulation has to do with government. Are there still inspectorate divisions in
our ministries of education? If they still exist, what do they do? Don’t they
just sit in their air-conditioned offices and push files? When last did any
school have an inspector on visit?
Do headmasters
and principals still do their jobs? Is everything not all about money, money,
and more money? As I keep saying, if we want a good country, we have to
change and work for it. Nobody else will. In fact, if we do not change, we will
continue to swirl around in a cauldron of boiling violence, as is already
happening.
*Adekoya is a commentator on public issues
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